I am Compassionate
Compassion is the life breath of peace, love and healing.
I breathe in compassion for all beings who have also breathed within the cycle of birth, living, and death.
I am filled with forgiveness for my own mistakes.
I breathe out fear, anger, and envy.
This message on my “Breathe Easy” cards from my Mom really spoke to me this morning. It’s so easy to be hard on ourselves for not being perfect, for failure, or for not feeling like we are doing enough for others. When we are hard on ourselves, it becomes even easier to be hard on others. I’ve really noticed that as I get better at forgiving myself, I become more open to forgiving everyone else! Pre-wedding stress has found me being tough on myself for not losing more weight or sticking to a stricter diet. I’ve also been critical of my more relaxed work schedule since spring break, and all the spending I’ve been doing lately for our special day. As a woman, I am cursed with the drive to please everyone and lately because I am a “bride” and “wife” in a position of leadership in a wedding and family, I find that task all the more impossible.
And then I remind myself… Elisabeth, you helped a mother to bring her baby into the world this week and your 6 students adore you and learn better with you (and you adore them!) Anyway, your sacral-centered human design means you don’t “fall under the pressure to be as productive as others and you simply enjoy life (what a gift!). You work more as a specialist for short periods of time, usually guiding others in how to work.” And finally, you get to be married to someone who makes you laugh every. single. day. and that is the best form of compassion! And Chocolate. Chocolate is the 2nd best form of compassion, so I treated myself this afternoon.
Women are all so incredibly strong, wise, and compassionate. Extend that compassion to yourself today!
Adapted from LivingLovingPaleo’ s Jamocha
1/2 cup of brewed coffee
1/2 cup of coconut milk
1 0z of dark chocolate
1 tsp. Cacao powder
2 coffee beans
Blend on high power, enjoy cold over ice or pour into a microwavable mug and heat up for a grown up hot chocolate!